Comments on: light a penny candle http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/15/light-a-penny-candle/ i will NOT scribble on the children Fri, 12 Mar 2010 18:16:01 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: daisies http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/15/light-a-penny-candle/comment-page-1/#comment-57864 daisies Thu, 25 Oct 2007 06:31:03 +0000 http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/16/light-a-penny-candle/#comment-57864 *tears* i have a beautiful candle that i light for henry and eliot on occasion, many occasions ... xox *tears* i have a beautiful candle that i light for henry and eliot on occasion, many occasions … xox

]]> By: amanda http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/15/light-a-penny-candle/comment-page-1/#comment-57144 amanda Mon, 22 Oct 2007 14:15:01 +0000 http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/16/light-a-penny-candle/#comment-57144 This post slowed the hands of time for me. Sitting at my computer, brilliant leaves rustling outside the window, the smell of coffee coming from the other room and gentle flutters coming from my belly. A belly where two began and only one will leave. I still grapple with how to mourn a life many will never know was, but it was, and that matters. Thank you for sending out a glow from your own remembering. So powerful and so very appreciated. This post slowed the hands of time for me. Sitting at my computer, brilliant leaves rustling outside the window, the smell of coffee coming from the other room and gentle flutters coming from my belly. A belly where two began and only one will leave. I still grapple with how to mourn a life many will never know was, but it was, and that matters. Thank you for sending out a glow from your own remembering. So powerful and so very appreciated.

]]> By: kate http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/15/light-a-penny-candle/comment-page-1/#comment-57073 kate Mon, 22 Oct 2007 03:01:56 +0000 http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/16/light-a-penny-candle/#comment-57073 Thank you, bon, for remembering my boy... Thank you, bon, for remembering my boy…

]]> By: Karen http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/15/light-a-penny-candle/comment-page-1/#comment-56554 Karen Sat, 20 Oct 2007 01:45:25 +0000 http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/16/light-a-penny-candle/#comment-56554 thank you, so dearly, for doing that for Finn - and all the ones we miss. And thank you for remembering Jordan with me. It's an incredible gift not to have to do that alone. thank you, so dearly, for doing that for Finn – and all the ones we miss. And thank you for remembering Jordan with me. It’s an incredible gift not to have to do that alone.

]]> By: SianOna http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/15/light-a-penny-candle/comment-page-1/#comment-56388 SianOna Fri, 19 Oct 2007 09:09:34 +0000 http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/16/light-a-penny-candle/#comment-56388 Very touching post Bon. It's wonderful that you took the time to remember Finn with Oscar. I didn't do anything for the rememberance day- partly because I didn't know there was such a day. Mostly because DH would prefer to just pretend there never was a third pregnancy. That's mostly my fault, I handled everything poorly, and the poor guy didn't even know I was pregnant until I was miscarrying. Very touching post Bon. It’s wonderful that you took the time to remember Finn with Oscar.

I didn’t do anything for the rememberance day- partly because I didn’t know there was such a day. Mostly because DH would prefer to just pretend there never was a third pregnancy. That’s mostly my fault, I handled everything poorly, and the poor guy didn’t even know I was pregnant until I was miscarrying.

]]> By: Jennifer http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/15/light-a-penny-candle/comment-page-1/#comment-56207 Jennifer Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:58:30 +0000 http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/16/light-a-penny-candle/#comment-56207 What a lovely tribute to all of these children. Even something as simple as lighting a candle, I think is a nice time to just reflect and remember. What a lovely tribute to all of these children. Even something as simple as lighting a candle, I think is a nice time to just reflect and remember.

]]> By: FENICLE http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/15/light-a-penny-candle/comment-page-1/#comment-56160 FENICLE Thu, 18 Oct 2007 14:00:29 +0000 http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/16/light-a-penny-candle/#comment-56160 I can't imagine either...what a way to stop and hold a moment. I can’t imagine either…what a way to stop and hold a moment.

]]> By: mimi http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/15/light-a-penny-candle/comment-page-1/#comment-56159 mimi Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:50:02 +0000 http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/16/light-a-penny-candle/#comment-56159 What a beautiful moment you've created for your family, Bon. It seems so normal and so magical at the same time, something O could take part in, a way for your boys to be part of each others' histories. Really lovely. And, as always, I'm so very sorry for your loss, for all the losses. My heart goes out ... What a beautiful moment you’ve created for your family, Bon. It seems so normal and so magical at the same time, something O could take part in, a way for your boys to be part of each others’ histories. Really lovely. And, as always, I’m so very sorry for your loss, for all the losses. My heart goes out …

]]> By: JuliaKB http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/15/light-a-penny-candle/comment-page-1/#comment-56157 JuliaKB Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:06:09 +0000 http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/16/light-a-penny-candle/#comment-56157 Thank you. I was still on the road, not reading blogs, and not knowing it was that day. Thank you for thinking of us too. You made me cry. Thank you. Thank you.
I was still on the road, not reading blogs, and not knowing it was that day. Thank you for thinking of us too.
You made me cry. Thank you.

]]> By: thordora http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/15/light-a-penny-candle/comment-page-1/#comment-56149 thordora Thu, 18 Oct 2007 11:23:39 +0000 http://cribchronicles.com/2007/10/16/light-a-penny-candle/#comment-56149 Amen hon. Amen. Amen hon. Amen.

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