Sat 3 Nov 2007
righteous lamentations
Posted by bon under coping stuff
[26] Comments
some of us woke up on the unjust side of the bed this morning.
riddle me this…
how is that my child – who has moved gradually to a single nap at the sitter’s over the past couple of months and happily naps there for two or three hour spells – cannot seem to nap at home on a weekend for more than forty-five bloody minutes? even if we keep him up all morning long and make sure he’s fed and dry when he goes down? why God? why such a damned trickster? don’t you notice we have blogging to do and hurricane preparations to, erm, prepare for?
how is it that my cat – who is a reasonably pleasant furry little creature who keeps the heck out of Oscar’s way and has never, to my knowledge, turned on him with an unearned swat or nip – bites the living daylights out of my ankles every time i have the temerity to so much as walk past her? why me? why so damned tasty? doesn’t she notice that i actually have the boniest, pointiest lower extremities in the house? (i mean, if she were biting the love handles, i’d get it…)
how is it that my cloth diapers (okay, they’re Oscar’s, formally, but i clean ‘em) – which are meant to be a fancy-ass lifetime investment ready to diaper the next twelve children i produce (uh, don’t even think about it, God!) – leak constantly, despite the fact that they’ve been stripped of detergent residue and washed according to all the nice directions? why, world? why is my child the little Niagara who cannot be contained by environmentally-friendly hemp and microfleece fibres? why is it that every time we leave the house the child’s pants end up looking and smelling like he’s been sleeping in an alley? why am i the dumb-ass mother who can’t seem to figure out how to diaper/feed/nurture my child without the assistance of soul-sucking plastics, vinyls, and pthalates?
insert renting of garments and gnashing of teeth.
and the real kicker…how is it that my comfort food giant economy bag of Bridge Mixture turned out to only have seven of those big chocolate-covered gummies in it, and about seven thousand entirely boring chocolate-covered peanuts? why, i ask? suppose you thought that was funny, Bridge Mixture people?!? suppose you thought you’d have a bit of a giggle, take the piss on some poor, gummy-loving soul?!? well, i’m glaring at you RIGHT NOW, you know. glaring very hard.
i have some extra (slightly nibbled) chocolate-covered peanuts at my house if anyone wants to come over and tamp their feet in a small, minor tantrum of sulkiness with me this afternoon. just sayin’.
bring your own injustices…and more Bridge Mixture.




November 3rd, 2007 at 4:53 pm
Why is it that the tropical storm comes to visit on a Saturday? Why? How does it not know we had plans?
I hear you, I do. Especially about the naps. Completely unfair.
November 3rd, 2007 at 5:40 pm
Righteously indignant, especially about the Bridge Mixture (and why that out of all the rest? Well…because candy is important thats why).
My fist is up with yours. I cry out Why too.
I just want to know why my big personal gift to self for birthday is menstruation. Pointless, at that, since I *don’t even ovulate.*
Julie
Using My Words
November 3rd, 2007 at 6:00 pm
Babe, would you like me to make you some bridge mix that doesn’t suck? Cause, like, I can….
November 3rd, 2007 at 6:12 pm
Will dispatch yummy Marks and Spencer candies asap. Can’t help with the leakage issue though – although a work colleague swears by biodegradeable nappies as “going out clothes” for her daughter. Could use them to wrap and protect the candy if you like?
November 3rd, 2007 at 7:13 pm
Hurricane prep: UGH!
I feel you about the Bridge Mix (HEE!) because I had a nuclear meltdown with both D and the pizza place guy over the one true definition of ”extra cheese” recently that left us all scarred, heh.
November 3rd, 2007 at 7:53 pm
you guys are so sweet…i’m touched. bring on the candy.
with extra cheese, oh hell, why not?
i am also slightly embarrassed as i know at least two of you live in areas where hurricane prep is a big deal…we here in eastern Canada are bracing for what YOU might call a pleasant windy day…
e, i bought a new detergent today as a last ditch effort to sort out this leaky bum-dom, but would nonetheless be quite entertained by Marks & Sparks wrapped in diapers. if the candy has an explosion, all will be well!
November 3rd, 2007 at 8:09 pm
I’ll bet you Oscar doesn’t sleep on the weekend because his routine is altered. That’s what Oliver is like…Dave is home and Julia is home and he’s completely thrown off by that, and rebels by not sleeping.
November 3rd, 2007 at 8:51 pm
Oh, the injustices! I feel you, especially about the cat claws/teeth in ankles…
I hope justice gets served–quickly.
November 3rd, 2007 at 9:22 pm
The white centers and the peanuts are my favourite part of the Bridge Mixture, I hate gummies…wanna swap?
November 3rd, 2007 at 9:36 pm
bon, I’m watching the news about the storm heading your way. Take care tonight. Thank you for all your awesome comments. I’m still reading them over and over (let’s hope my numb brain retains your wise words!)
November 3rd, 2007 at 9:39 pm
It is the Law of Inverse Expectations. And it only kicks in on weekends. Sorry.
November 3rd, 2007 at 10:38 pm
At this stage, you are probably not interested in investing in new cloth diapers, but after trying several brands with our two kids, we found mother-ease. They are Canadian made, designed by a mom wanting better diapers. They worked really well for us. The covers will work with other diapers and were the best for stopping leaks. I think that their website is mother-ease.com.
If I still had them, I would hand them over, but they have already been passed on.
November 4th, 2007 at 12:28 am
Bridge Mixture? Girl you are a throw back. My granny is the last in my family line to enjoy Bridge Mixture.
As for the cloth diapers, I hear you LOUD and CLEAR. We spent god knows what on cloth diapers that were positively useless. Now I kill the environment and my kid about 6 times a day. Woot.
BTW, it sure is rainy here right now but, all in all, it’s not much to sneeze at so far.
November 4th, 2007 at 12:28 am
Why does my child have an ear infection and a horrible cold at the same time? Why does my dog smell like a giant asshole? Why is my backing hurting so bad that I can’t walk correctly? Why world? WHY?!?
November 4th, 2007 at 12:34 am
let me just say that weekend naps really suck at our house too. And I will never understand it, except that I’m always hoping for more- and never getting – sleep.
November 4th, 2007 at 1:11 am
On the topic of f*cked weekend naps, did you ever read my rage post. That’s what sparked it. Erg.
November 4th, 2007 at 2:27 am
Why is it that my cherubic 15 month old daughter is an ANGEL for her father, her brother, her sister, the church nursery, any babysitters to speak of, but becomes a clingy crying mess crawling along behind me insisting she be held every freakin moment the second I walk in the room.
Hey. Thanks for the permission to vent.
November 4th, 2007 at 6:40 am
I think O won’t sleep because he doesn’t want to waste hometime-with-his-’rents by sleeping. It is flattering, just think of it like that. It might make things easier.
Cats are crazy. There is just no two ways about that.
Cloth diapers kicked my ass. My kids peed like geysers and I became Huggies’ bitch in record time.
Feel better.
November 4th, 2007 at 1:19 pm
Yeah, we’ve given up the weekend naps for the toddler. Just ain’t happenin’.
But you lost me at chocolate-covered gummies.
November 4th, 2007 at 1:36 pm
I’m sitting here reading blogs while in the midst of an early morning temper tantrum of an attention seeking 5 yr old who’s about to get more attention than he wants!
Ugh! I’m trying to play the “ignore it” card but it hasn’t worked yet.
Anyhow, the chocolate sounds good right now
November 4th, 2007 at 2:09 pm
Why is it that my husband can close the door to defecate and the child cares not at all, but the moment I need to pee or take care of business, a cacophony of needs arise that must be addressed RIGHT THAT MINUTE?
Why are Cheetos bad for me?
Why did The Poo give up her nap at 27 months?
Why does everyone else in my husband’s extended family get to have their ideal Christmas, while he and I and their only grandchild have to travel on both Chirtsmas eve and day in order to satisfy their need to spend time with us over the holiday, no matter if it means that we have to tell our child that Santa slips in the tailpipe?
November 4th, 2007 at 6:37 pm
Instead of Bridge Mixture, see if you can find chocolate-covered jube jubes. Guaranteed no nuts!
November 4th, 2007 at 10:41 pm
Why do we even try to pretend that a 7th graders homework is not really the homework of the entire family? We all know that when one, young, slightly immature boy is supposed to write a paper on earthquakes, it means we ALL will be learning more than we ever wanted to know about earthquakes. Why must we continue in this charade? It would be easier if the homework came home addressed to mom, dad and any siblings in the house, “Dear family, Here are your assignments for the weekend…”
November 4th, 2007 at 11:50 pm
I actually read somewhere that some people actually did a study (this is the part that schocks me …) that cats can tell the difference between adult people and kid people. This being the case, cats, understanding that kid people (especially baby people) are not, um, too smart or cat-broken, cut them slack that they do not, erm, cut for you and me.
Weird eh?
Who thought to study this stuff?
And, we gave up the cloth diapers at 7.5 months. The leaks, and also, wouldn’t fit under HER PANTS! She couldn’t bend at the waist, it was so tight in there …
November 5th, 2007 at 12:33 am
Dear Mayor & Rooster:
Why do you sleep until 7:30 a.m. on WEEKDAYS and 4:30 on weekends?
Villains.
OTJ
November 5th, 2007 at 1:46 am
I guess my weekend was pretty good after all. Reading everyone else’s complaints is positively therapeutic.