Tue 2 Sep 2008
autumn journal
Posted by bon under mama-baby stuff, pondering stuff
[22] Comments
September has come, it is hers
whose vitality leaps in the autumn
Whose nature prefers
trees without leaves and a fire in the fireplace.
- Louis MacNeice
oh September, you’re a tease.
you’re there, just behind the curtain, waiting. there’s a crispness to the air, suddenly, and it promises sweaters and lined pages all new and clean and the smell of apples and the sour beer of homecoming weekends. for a moment today i felt it, the call of fall, and it stirred me and something sang out and my step was light and purposeful in beliance of the body i lug around these days mashed into too-small clothes, belly jutting, hips giving way to gravity. for a moment, i felt at home in myself and in the time-space continuum, because it was autumn and i could smell it on the wind and it was good.
then i loaded myself into the car without air-conditioning, the car that had been sitting basking in the sunshine, and even before i got to the doctor’s appointment all the autumn was gone from my world and i was sweaty and lumpen again and it was me i was smelling.
but you reminded me, September, you reminded me of the season on the wing and the short, bright days coming and for all i may have said about September birthdays suddenly i feel just right about it all.
i am sharp with hope, glassy and jagged, trying to be patient. so much uncertainty, still. so much hubris to believe it will all unfold as seasons do, expected and then brought to fruition, natural as the leaves falling. but this season ahead, i know. it is mine, has been since i can remember, the one in which i am most myself. and that old intimacy gives me the oddest comfort in all this anticipation and lurching hope and excitement and trepidation. fall, i lie to myself. i am simply preparing for fall.
if i could knit, i would make her a little hat, to wear when we walk in the yellow leaves together.




September 2nd, 2008 at 9:10 pm
I would happily knit your little one a hat. Just say the word.
September 2nd, 2008 at 9:50 pm
Oh, Bon. That last sentence… sigh (smile).
xo
September 2nd, 2008 at 10:22 pm
i feel this was a love letter to your baby. baby september, so full of hope and renewal and promise.
lovely.
xoxo
September 2nd, 2008 at 10:54 pm
*sigh*
Your posts are like fine, dark chocolate slowly melting my my mouth. That last line made me teary.
September 2nd, 2008 at 11:26 pm
I think you just made my favourite time of year even favouriter. :)
September 2nd, 2008 at 11:38 pm
i can knit. can i make her one? something soft and gently woolly. i can see it already.
September 3rd, 2008 at 9:39 am
That last line melted my heart.
September 3rd, 2008 at 10:29 am
You know, when you write like this it just makes the rest of us look bad. ;)
Gorgeous. I love fall, and even though it is about 100 here today, I could feel autumn seeping in around me while I read this.
September 3rd, 2008 at 11:07 am
That was beautiful. You write so wonderfully that I could feel Autumn seeping in. I actually got chills while reading that. I have a knitted hat for each of my boys that were made for them after they got here because they came early in April instead of June when they were due. They looked totally cute in them. I hope your sweet baby looks just as adorable in the one all the readers have offered to make for her.
September 3rd, 2008 at 12:24 pm
I foresee wee Hughlouise swamped in a mound of lovely knitted hats, for every occasion.
A friend knitted a hat for James and it was finally fallish enough for him to wear it this week. The cuteness of a bebe in a knitted hat should be bottled and sold.
September 3rd, 2008 at 1:23 pm
i love how you turn a phrase.
September 3rd, 2008 at 2:10 pm
I love how your little one is slowly becoming more and more tangible in your words and thoughts. And this post? I could hear the fire crackling! How bright, indeed, the days coming will be.
September 3rd, 2008 at 2:19 pm
You know what’s nice about September birthdays? Autumn themed birthday cakes, with white chocolate leaves on them. For next year.
September 3rd, 2008 at 4:17 pm
That would be one lovely hat. Thinking of it made me feel all whimsy for some old hats I have packed away. The ones my little ones used to wear.
September 3rd, 2008 at 4:46 pm
My first was a September girl and it is the one time of year I can feel in the whisper of the afternoon light and in the crisp dew of the dawn. What a bounty.
September 3rd, 2008 at 4:48 pm
*sigh*
little hat, indeed.
September 3rd, 2008 at 8:34 pm
If I knew how to knit I would make her a cap myself, but I am sure that the two of you will knit memories even without a wee cap.
September 4th, 2008 at 8:12 am
We don’t get the same crisp fall smell over here – it’s wetter and lacks that sunny smell bit. September is a great month – round and bright and full of something wonderful. Then again, I was one of those kids who LOVED going back to school. Any developments on the name front?
September 4th, 2008 at 10:40 am
Sigh. I feel the same way about September: “it promises sweaters and lined pages all new and clean and the smell of apples”
Your writing is wonderful I always look forward to coming here.
September 4th, 2008 at 10:40 pm
I would knit and claim fall, but it was 93 today and my yard looks french fried.
But my personal snark aside: a simply beautiful post, Bon. Claim Fall as yours. I’ll send you a pumpkin waffle recipe and all will be good.
September 4th, 2008 at 11:32 pm
My husband is sooo damned lucky that I had my tubes tied. That image of walking in the fall leaves with a little one…friggin heart breaking. My little ones are all big now, and they run ahead. I don’t even get to hear the crunch beneath their feet. I’d have jumped my husband right now if there was half a chance. As it is, I’ll let him sleep.
September 5th, 2008 at 10:48 am
Your writing is exquisite.